Hanna Secret reveals: That's why she sometimes doesn't feel like foreplay
Buxtehude - Enlightenment à la Hanna Secret (28): In her latest YouTube video, the porn actress talked about why she and women in general sometimes don't feel like foreplay.
A distinction must first be made between two initial situations: Is this the first time intimacy has taken place between the parties involved or is it the umpteenth time, for example in a steady partnership?
In the first case, bad experiences could be the main reason why the woman doesn't want foreplay. "Now Dieter comes along and says: 'I want to spoil you'. But the woman still has Hartmut's experiences in her head," Hanna tried to illustrate.
The 28-year-old explained that this has often happened to her herself. "I've realized that I don't feel like foreplay because my last experience in this area was very sobering."
After all, there are many things to pay attention to during foreplay and things you can do wrong. "There is one important point above all: getting involved with the woman. And I'm really serious about that, dear men," emphasized the sex expert.
Every woman is different and wants to be touched differently. She herself, for example, is very sensitive around the nipples and loves it when they are caressed. "But if I notice that someone is really grabby and not gentle ... I don't like that at all."
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That's why, in addition to the right atmosphere and a dose of relaxation, communication with one another is particularly important. "Talking is the be-all and end-all," emphasized the woman from Buxtehude(Lower Saxony).
This is especially true in a relationship, because sometimes you don't really know what your partner actually likes. Hanna's recommendation: "Just ask: 'On a scale of one to 10, how good do you think I am during foreplay?
If the result is not so good, it shouldn't be seen as a criticism. "Take it as an opportunity to make things better between you and bring more intensity and passion back into bed," the Hamburg native appealed in conclusion.